When They Are Talking About You

Ok - Intellectually we know we can't change what people say and can only change how we react. So, how do we stop overreacting, stop taking things personally, and stop the expectations and assumptions that leave us disappointed? 

The answer is acceptance. Happiness is the shortest distance between what you want and what you have. 

When we can observe our life and all our situations from a third part perspective without judgment there is a major shift to peace. It’s like watching a documentary of your life. It’s the fly on the wall perspective. 

We accept others and situations at face value - not trying to change them or control them. And, most importantly, we accept ourselves the same.

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We don’t live in fear of all the things our thoughts tell us might happen.

We don’t feel unseen, invalidated, disregarded, irrelevant or as if we don’t matter.

We don’t wallow in all the guilt and blame we use to avoid what we don’t want to let go of.

We don’t adopt shame and then armour up against it with distancing, controlling and overbearing behavior.

Acceptance is being able to walk into any room, situation meeting, or interaction and know you are ok and belong. It’s your smile. It’s executive presence. It’s kindness, it’s compassion. It’s likability. It’s knowing. It’s your best self. It’s wisdom. freedom.

If this resonates with you let’s talk about how to get there. Respond to this message and I’ll send you a short career survey to get started.

If you are feeling age discrimination when your company should be putting your expertise to good use, this link to the strategies I share with my clients might help >>> 10 Tips When You Fear Age Bias

If you are struggling with uncertainty and feel exhausted and ineffective watch my FREE Training on Three Ways to Move to the Next Level In Your Career Right Now to 1) identify the right role for you, 2) position your transferable skills and 3) create a career portfolio that sells you before you even get an interview. If you don't know where you will be at the end of the year, you are already there.  

Your coach,

Mary Lee 

P.S. Feel free to send this link to someone who could benefit from it. We are all walking down the same road in life looking for a hand to hold. Sometimes we must be the hand that reaches out.

www.MaryLeeGannon.com

Mary Lee Gannon, ACC, CAE is an executive coach and 19-year corporate CEO who helps leaders have more effective careers, happier lives and better relationships. Request a free consultation call.

 

 

 

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